Friday, October 12, 2012

These Unspeakable Gifts


There are so many blessings contained in one day
Too many to count or to even convey
Simple wonders we often do not observe
Mercies and blessings we seldom deserve

Like mornings that dawn with hopes renewed
The scent of coffee freshly brewed
Quiet time alone with God
Someone who loves us, though we are flawed
 
Walking barefoot on a cool, sandy beach
The changing of seasons & the beauty in each
Patches of flowers growing wild
The whispered “I love you” from a little child


Wings of a dragonfly intricately detailed
Forgiveness in times when we have failed 
Crates brimming with apples so red and crisp
The smile of a child whose lost tooth brings a lisp

Cherished memories of a loved one who’s deceased
Hard works compensation through pay that’s increased
Gods faithfulness always for our needs to supply
The cool night air and star bejeweled sky

Endearing clasp of a hand weathered and old
Arms that accept and lovingly enfold 
Music that speaks to the core of our being
Eyes to enjoy everything we are seeing

A timely word that ministers and uplifts
“Thanks be unto God for these unspeakable gifts!” -2 Corinthians 9:15









Written By: Robin Burk 
All rights reserved © 2012

Friday, August 31, 2012

Get Them Started While They're Young


As many of you know, being a full time Nanny has been my occupation for the past several years. Recently, after reading the article linked to my previous blog post, I was confronted with the embarrassing fact that in all those months of journaling my blessings, I had never shared the idea with my children, nor did I encourage them to start making their own list. 

Though incredibly blessed with perhaps more indulgences than needed, their mother and I had often discussed the fact that, like most children, they could be rather unappreciative at times. When I read the article on ways to encourage an “attitude of gratitude” in our children, I was stumped as to why I had never thought of doing this before!   

So this week I purchased two note books, uniquely suited to their personality, wrote their names inside the cover flap along with the reminder to “Count your blessings, name them one by one. Count your many blessings, see what God has done”, and we immediately got started with the challenge to write five blessings at the end of each day. They took to it immediately and I have been so impressed and encouraged by some of the things they have recorded.  I’ll just share a few:

Parker and Piper, ages 6 & 4
 Parker:
1. Thank you, God for letting Robin play my favorite game, shooting targets.
2. I am thankful for God creating us and giving us a heart so we can love each other.
3. I am thankful that God lets our mommy & daddy buy me stuff & for all the toys I have & for God letting me give them (mom & dad) special gifts for holidays.
4. Thank you, God for my macaroni and beef for lunch.
5. Thank you for Robin helps us make a special card for mom and dad’s anniversary and that I can remember those things in my brain and then say it in a good sentence.

Piper, age 4:
1. Thank you that we love our God, that He’s a fun God, & I always love Him & hope He has a good day in heaven.
2. Thank you for Robin, helps us close our eyes and take naps. 
3. Thank you for my teacher not make me take naps and I love her so much.
4. Thank you for my two kitties. They kinda bite & scratch but you can get better.
5. Thank you for mommy & daddy make good food and thank you for the goodest soup for lunch.

How cute is that?!  I hope this inspires you to get your children started on their own “Thankfulness Journals”. If you’re consistent, before long you’ll begin to see positive results in their attitudes.  They may surprise you by how much they are thankful for but simply forgot to put into words at the moment it occurred.  As a parent or childcare giver, it’s always a blessing to know that your children do appreciate and acknowledge the things you do or have provided for them.  They just need to be reminded to articulate their thankfulness daily so that it becomes a habit throughout the rest of life.

So what are some things that you are thankful for this week?  Do you have any ideas as to how to encourage an attitude of gratitude?  Please hit the “comment” button and share with us! It’s always a blessing to hear from you.

Monday, August 6, 2012

Encouraging An Attitude of Gratitude


A while back, I was contacted by a lady who'd been encouraged by my blog. She shared with me an article which had recently been posted on her own blog, titled "How Nannies Can Encourage an Attitude of Gratitude"I was thrilled to receive this email and, being a Nanny myself, was eager to read the article which I thoroughly enjoyed and found to be very insightful and beneficial not only for Nannies, but also for any childcare giver; parent, sibling etc...

Linked below you will find the article which includes many creative ways to encourage your children to have an attitude of gratitude at an early age, greatly benefiting them in years to come. So check it out and feel free to share your thoughts or any blessings which you have experienced this week in the "comment" box below.

http://www.4nannies.com/blog/how-nannies-can-encourage-an-attitude-of-gratitude/

Blessings on your week!

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Nature's Revelation

These words welled up inside my heart late one night after silently observing the beauty of God’s creation while traveling to Michigan. The magnificent wonder of it all causes me to pause and thank Him for blessing us day to day with such splendor, be it simple or great.  May these words inspire your heart as well, to worship our Creator with thankful hearts.

“The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament showeth His handiwork. Day unto day uttereth speech, and night unto night showeth knowledge. There is no speech or language where their voice is not heard.” –Psalm 19:1-3

Glowing sun orb, fiery orange
Awakes the earth from sleep
Bursting forth so gloriously
‘Ore shadows of the deep

Rising slowly in the sky
Dispersing the shrouds of night
Casting smashing shades upon 
The clouds of purest white

Soon we find the midday sky
Reflecting in waters blue
And skirting the calm, tranquil pond
An awe-inspiring view

Luscious slopping hills of green
Tall pines which stand erect
A host of wildlife gather ‘neath
Strong limbs of which protect

A moment later, ominous clouds
Roll in as if on duty
A crack of lightning, peel of thunder
Form its own majestic beauty

Sheets of rain descend
The earth’s refreshed once more
A rainbow’s vivid rays appear
An end to the down-pour

And each reflecting droplet rests
Upon both leaf and flower
Catching the glint of sunlight
Following the sudden shower

And as the sun begins to set
Upon a sky of grey
It melts into such soft pastels
And slowly fades away

Then just as if out of a dream
Floats in the blackening sky
Enchanting silvery moon
And twinkling stars shooting by
 
Fireflies like pixie dust
Gleaming in the night
Shimmering magic through wooded forest
Mystic sparkling light

All creation moves
With such miraculous wonderment
And fills a soul with questions
Of the Creators true intent

To bless our form of life
Though perverse in all its ways
With such surpassing beauty
Causing awe-inspiring praise

The intricate magnificence
Reveals the Master’s hand
In ways our eyes can see
Yet often fail to understand

So blessed are we to wake
Each morning to its view
A heavenly masterpiece composed
With love for me and you

© 2012 

Friday, June 8, 2012

More Then Can Be Numbered

It began as a challenge to count my blessings - at least 1,000.  I never imagined what a tremendous impact it would have on my life. Growing up, I use to journal every detail of life around me, but for whatever reason there came a day when I just couldn’t write another line.  I closed my journal and never picked it back up again. 

This past year, a dear friend gave me a book called “A Thousand Gifts”.  The general concept was not a novelty to me, however I accepted the challenge contained within and began to journal once more. This time, however, I would only number the blessings of life; every single thing, big or small, that I was truly thankful to God for.

So I began.  At first I thought it would be a breeze.  I’d reach 1,000, easy.  Well…it proved to be a much greater undertaking then I had imagined it would be.  So I began this blog, which you are now reading, first & foremost to encourage others, but also to keep myself accountable.  I also invited several young ladies I knew to attempt it as well.  After the initial incentive wore off, I was left to try and keep myself accountable.  

After the first week I had reached a whopping 30 blessings.  Honestly, it was a great first start but at the time it looked miniscule in comparison to the 1,000 I had imagined whipping out.  But rather than give up, I began to search a little deeper into God’s beautiful and awe-inspiring creation, the everyday miracles that happen in our busy little lives.  I took it day by day, blessing by blessing and as a result each step lifted my spirits and filled me with inner joy.  I began, and am still learning, to gain an attitude of gratitude.  Trust me, it doesn’t happen overnight.  It’s a work in progress.

It has been months since this all began and at long last I reached the intended 1,000th blessing in my journal this week.  I was elated to say the least.  I immediately messaged a few friends and shouted the news across the house to my sister.

I don’t know if God was showing off more than usual this week or if, through counting my blessings and searching hard to find them, I have begun to actually see things I had missed before, but this week was filled with an incredible number of answered prayers.

Now that I have reached 1,000 I will continue to journal my blessings, perhaps for the rest of my life...hence the blog title "A Thousand and Counting". It keeps my thoughts on things above and helps me to be aware of how much God loves me & how much I am blessed.  After all He's done, one of the greatest things I can give back to Him is a heart of thanksgiving. There have been weeks where I have lost focus but He continues to draw me back through His constant blessings that are impossible to miss.

When I look back over my life I desire only to remember these blessings - the "God things" rather than the "me things" - to find beauty in the simple and great. Before, my journal entries seemed naturally to center around my life, but now each journal entry is centered around God & how I see Him through the blessings in this life, which is where the focus of my writing should have been all along. 

True, God's blessings are innumerable, but I desire to count them because by doing so I have begun, ever so slowly, to change from the inside out into what God intended me to be all along; a God-seeker, worshiper, and servant with a grateful heart. When I pray, I begin with thanks rather than immediately asking for Him to bless me or answer my prayer requests.

How fitting that I should come across the following verse in my morning devotions this week:

“Many, O Lord my God, are thy wonderful works which thou hast done, and thy thoughts which are towards us: they cannot be reckoned up in order unto thee: if I would declare and speak of them, they are more than can be numbered.”  -Psalm 40:5

“So count the ways He loves, a thousand, more, never stop, that when you wake in the morning you can’t help turn humbly to the east, unfold your hands to the heavens, and though you tremble and though you wonder, though the world is ugly, it is beautiful, and you can slow and you can trust and you can receive each moment as grace.” –Ann Voskamp “A Thousand Gifts”

If you are interested in the challenge I have undertaken but do not have the time to read Ann’s book, please take a minute out of your busy day to watch this video.  It is a summary of her book in four minutes. I believe it will inspire you to count your blessings too:


Friday, May 18, 2012

Long Time Coming....


Hey, friends!  Okay, so I know this post has been a long looooong time coming and I apologize for leaving you all hanging for months on end.  I promise I didn’t give up on the whole “count your blessings” idea; I’m still keeping record of all that I am thankful for and am ecstatic to have almost reached the 1,000th blessing in my Thankfulness Journal! 

Not sure how many of you have continued to check this blog for new posts but for those of you who have, I thank you from the bottom of my heart and again, I apologize for not posting regularly.  Life happens and continues to happen, internet access isn’t always attainable, and I was out of state for several months caring for my grandfather.  But now that I’m back I hope to be able to post more often.

I have experienced hundreds of incredible blessings over these months but I’ll just share a few of the highlights with you.

1. As I said before, it was a great blessing for my sister & I to serve our Grandpa, but being so far away from our family & friends over Christmas, birthdays, and other special events ‘caused us to feel very isolated and lonely but the Lord blessed us through a couple from our Grandpa’s church who treated us like their own children & ministered, loved, and encouraged our hearts greatly over those winter months.

2. Two of my sisters were recently married and now one of them is adopting three children who have come from a broken home and difficult past and we have been blessed to welcome them into our family and surround them with love.

3. The Lord has provided two great job opportunities for me over this summer.

4. I have been given many opportunities to witness & minister Christ’s love to others around me.

5. Because of what God has been doing in my life through counting my blessings, I have been able to encourage several of my friends to begin their own “Thankfulness Journal” and have been overjoyed to see how it has affected their lives!

I could go on forever, but I’ll stop there because I would like to hear what God has been doing in your life.  Have you begun your own thankfulness journal?  Would you like to?  It’s simple.  All you need is a paper and pen and you can begin writing blessings down every time you encounter one.  I promise it will greatly impact and enhance your life and way of thinking.

You can start right now by clicking the “comment” button and telling me what you are thankful for today!  Be it big or small, I want to hear it all!  So what are you waiting for?  Post away!!



Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Thankfulness Linked to Positive Changes in Brain & Body

I ran across a fascinating article online today which was recently broadcast on ABC's “Good Morning America”.  Health Reporter, Mikaela Conley shares how being Thankful will not only effect our attitude; it also has a very positive effect on our physical being. 
 "Do you feel grateful? Write it down. Think about it. Talk about it. 'Tis the season of thanking, and not only will you spread those positive vibrations to those around you, your health will benefit, too.

For those who tend to be more Grinch-ish than grateful, there's some hard evidence that might make you want to turn that frown upside down. A positive outlook and feelings of thankfulness can have a direct and beneficial effect on the brain and body.

"If [thankfulness] were a drug, it would be the world's best-selling product with a health maintenance indication for every major organ system," said Dr. P. Murali Doraiswamy, head of the division of biologic psychology at Duke University Medical Center.

While the act of being thankful is not a substitute for a proper medical diagnosis and treatment, Doraiswamy said it's certainly a strategy that can be used to enhance wellness.

Studies have shown measurable effects on multiple body and brain systems, said Doraiswamy. Those include mood neurotransmitters (serotonin, norepinephrine), reproductive hormones (testosterone), social bonding hormones (oxytocin), cognitive and pleasure related neurotransmitters (dopamine), inflammatory and immune systems (cytokines), stress hormones (cortisol), cardiac and EEG rhythms, blood pressure, and blood sugar." -Mikaela Conley

Perhaps this explains why those who are focused on all the blessings of life, who view everything as a gift from God and live in an attitude of gratitude, they are often more healthy, happy, and blessed.  Ungratefulness will eat away at you and destroy, not only your relationships, but also your life; physically, spiritually, mentally, and emotionally.  God has given us so many innumerable blessings, we have all of our life time to enjoy them and thank Him for them.
"Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow."  ~ Melody Beattie.

"In everything give thanks; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.” -1 Thes. 5:18 

“Shout joyfully to the Lord, all the earth. Serve the Lord with gladness: come before Him with joyful singing. Know that the Lord Himself is God: it is He who has made us, and not we ourselves. We are His people and the sheep of His pasture. Enter His gates with thanksgiving, and His courts with praise. 
Give thanks to Him; bless His name. For the LORD is good; His lovingkindness is everlasting, and His faithfulness to all generations.” –Psalm 100